the issue: you think you “have to because you can”, which goes for the traits other people like and accept.
the dream: use all of your gifts without stressing one too much, and YOU choose, not the.
the “wrong” turn: you think it’s about pleasing others and maximising productivity and being a good citizen instead of following your calling/true, full capabilities the blind spot: just because you are capable of something doesn’t mean you’re obligated. you can set the boundaries that feel right for you.
the “real” solution: learn to actively chooose where you put your energies, even if it’s against outside expectations and against what society thinks is right and good.fs
